A reason, Or a season, but not neccessarily a Lifetime!!

One of the hardest things i've come to learn, and might i say still am adjusting to it's knowledge, is being responsible for myself. Now when I say being responsible for self, I mean being conscious about the cause and effect of things and how it will affect me. The choices we make dictating the opinions we are willing to take from society, friends, family, self, etc. One example of this is relationships. Friendships that go sour and lovers that become a muse for songs of " I hate you so much right now" lol. A close friend of mine wrote a blog called " spring cleaning" in which she deciphers the concept of GOD re-arranging your circumference by removing unhealthy people and things to make room for clarity and peace of mind. This is a prime example of being responsible for self. The wisdom and courage to understand when things that you love can become things that you need to love from a distance. People who we meet and fall in love with but they aren't willing to commit to reciprocity, these are situations where you have to muster all of the strength from you and GOD and commit to loving yourself more. You are always given a choice, victim or victorious, and clearly I wanna be victorious. However, nobody gains victory without sacrifice, pain, sorrow, and some bitterness. I feel once you gain consciousness and overstanding of your situation or conflict you are then responsible for making a choice. We've all seen the movie " what's love got to do with it" and we wonder why the hell Tina just didn't get the hell up and leave. She didn't have the will and courage to be responsible enough and decide that she wasn't going to entertain Ike's bullshit anymore. Anyways, to make this blog shorter than a novel I ask of you readers to do some of your own " spring cleaning" . Re-evaluate your circumference and your life and take action to things and people who aren't benefiting your life and allowing you to reach a higher plateau. Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Lover, Uncle, Friend, Everyone's growth is different and many times people just grow apart. That's life and reality is Harsh. DEAL WITH IT!!